Howdy everyone! Hope you all are doing well. I have fixed up the sub enough to feel I can relax now and see how things go.

I put some rules in place.

1. This sub is for 18 years old. I did remove the NSFW label but that doesn’t change things. All posters and all commenters must be 18 . If you experience someone messaging you that is younger please report this to the mods, preferably with screenshots, so I can ban accounts like that.
2. T4T. We all know it, but now it is set in stone. I’m still not sure how to specifically stop cis people from posting, but I think I have a good system setup to prevent it. I do need help from the community to still PLEASE report comments and posts that slip by the automod. I will try my best to figure things out if they bypass things.
3. TransgenderR4R now has a REQUIRED post title requirement! If your post does not follow that requirement your post WILL be removed. An example post title would like this:
   1. 25 [FTM4R] #LasVegas or #Online– Flirty transguy looking for other trans people for flirty fun
   2. Current tags are: FTM4FTM |F TM4MTF | FTM4NB | FTM4R MTF4FTM | MTF4MTF | MTF4NB | MTF4R NB4FTM | NB4MTF | NB4NB | NB4R
   3. The R is to represent all or any gender and is not allowed to include cis men or cis women.
   4. All titles must have a # along with location. Location can be the city/state/country you live in or you can just say #Online if that is what you are looking for. Posts without a # in it will immediately be deleted.
4. To prevent spam, abuse, and trolling accounts are no required to be AT LEAST 10 DAYS OLD and have AT LEAST 50 comment karma. If you don’t like that, oh well. If I still see spam/abuse/trolling I will permaban people and increase account age and comment karma requirements.
5. This sub isn’t for posting photos, nudes or otherwise. Plain and simple. I have blocked the ability to post images. If you want to show off your pictures then post them on your profile or send them in messages.
6. No personal information on the sub. No phone numbers, emails, addresses, Discord/Instagram/Facebook/Twitter/Snapchat account information, etc. You get it. Don’t post it. Share it in DMs.
7. Posting limits – Max 1 post every 24 hours. Otherwise they will be deleted. Multiple offenses will lead to a permaban.
8. I think it goes without saying but be respectful to each other. Its okay to agree to disagree but I won’t tolerate name calling, even towards cis people. If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything.
9. No spamming, peddling, or self-promotion. This is not a place to collect OF followers. This is the only warning I am giving on this. If I see ANY type of peddling, you will be permabanned. This is your ONLY warning.
10. No NSFW content. This is not a sexually explicit sub to be treated like some erotica fiction stories. If you are looking for just sex, that’s fine. State that in your post. But no vulgar or overly sexual information, in posts or comments. Posts and comments like this will be deleted. After a couple of warnings you will be permabanned.

We are all adults here. Let’s act like it. This shouldn’t be a sub that requires a lot of moderation. If you see something, say something. If people are misrepresenting themselves, send a message to the mods. Don’t be afraid to use the report button. I can’t see everything all the time and I need your help catching people who slip between the cracks. I have also banned links of any kind here.

I tried to be as inclusive as I can about identities and flairs without having to type up 150 different identities. I am not trying to be exclusive, it’s just hard to make everyone happy and make my role here easy. I was going to do a R4R tag/flair BUT that is an easy way for cis people to bypass the rules. I know they can misrepresent themselves and just use other tags/flairs however this is the best I could do.

If you have issues with other people, this sub, posting, commenting, etc please let me know. I’ll try my best to figure out things as they come up. This community means a lot to me and I just want to make the users of it happy.

Thank you for reading my long-winded message.

Good luck and happy searching.