Well at the age of 30, I’ve (AMAB) decided I am meant to be a woman. I’m so excited but also completely terrified. I’m married and know my wife isn’t going to take it well, she’s not transphobic, just has told me previously she’s only attracted to men. But my plan is to tell her this weekend when I get back from a work trip. It’s going to hurt, I know that. We’ve been together since we were in high school and I still love her. But as I discussed with my therapist, if it’s a choice between me suffering and us staying together vs us splitting but me becoming my true self…..I have to choose the latter…

I am completely worried about passing as I’ve already got thinning hair, a deep voice, and a very manly build but am hopeful.

My birthday is early January and I’d really like to start HRT around then as it seems poetic.

I’ve only told my therapist and best friend so I just needed to get it off my chest