I need help....We've been slowly telling my 3 kids I'm trans (ftm) over the course of the last few months. Well, today they found my testosterone. So I explained to them that I'm trying it out to see how it goes. At first everything was fine. My 12 year old thinks this is awesome and she fully supports me. My 9 year old just broke down. She's absolutely terrified her dad is going to divorce me (he's 100% supportive of me and this), she's terrified her grandparents are going to hate me (which they likely will and it will be absolutely awful, so I can't calm her fears there), and that she's going to be bullied for her mom being a transgender guy (which is a HUGE fear I have as well).

This has me completely broken. I don't know what to do and I don't want to be a source of fear, pain and discomfort for her. She also said she's tired of people controlling my life and therfore she wants me to do this.

Any help??? I'm not doing well with this.