About Me:
I am an ambitious and driven woman with strong moral values and teasing is my love language. Dating me will likely require sacrificing your personal space, an understanding that health is wealth, and nurturing me as I continue to grow. I see life as a marathon where the whole point is to develop yourself into someone better so that you can do more — more for your family, your community, your purpose, whatever. But you should always be doing something. There is too much to experience in life to sit around saying “I’m bored” or complain.

What I am offering is devotion, loyalty, and support. I’m affectionate and I will look up to you. I will find strength with you there and you’ll be my #1 person - above friends and family. If you become injured or ill, I’m willing to step up and take care of you until you can lead again. This dynamic will be built over time as we get to know each other. I’m not interested in rushing and will not lead with sex (i.e. don’t ask for sexting, sexy pics). For clarification, I’m interested in a soft dom in the bedroom, at most. In public, not so much; just chivalry (ordering for me, holding the door open, stepping in and protecting me, me holding onto your bicep as we walk).

I currently have a blue collar career that I love, but will change for the right man. I’m interested in homesteading whether it be urban or rural. I’m very smart: 4.0 GPA in high school, bachelors degree in STEM, published in peer-reviewed research magazine by 19 years old, masters degree in logistics, and a professional license. I’m most curious about finances, homesteading, tax returns, nutrition, self discipline and environmental degradation. In addition to homesteading, I’d like to pursue calisthenics (so that I can be healthy while maintaining a feminine physique), environmental improvement in large-scale industry, and owning a sailboat throughout my life. I don’t do drugs, am actively trying to quit alcohol, caffeine and processed foods. I have also had a massive weight loss journey so I do not have a perfect figure.

Because I believe in honesty and being forthcoming, I’ll list a couple qualities I think are my biggest red flags:
🚩 I am away for work half my life (with minimal cell reception/wifi). We’d be a LDR until I trusted you enough to let the blue collar career go
🚩 My morals are my greatest priority, above family and you. If I think you’re doing something immoral, it’s not going to work out. I’m Catholic, but I’m quite accepting of other beliefs or agnostics. I don’t believe in forcing a religion on someone, but I do believe in being a good person. I hope to find a man that I can trust to lead because we have the same moral code
🚩 I’d like to adopt or be a stepmom rather than birth children. I want to help take care of someone who had a rough start and give them a better ending

What I’m Looking For:
I’m looking for someone chivalrous, kind, slow to anger, and ambitious. I do not want to be your reason to start. I want to be the reflection of determination and self discipline you know it has taken to perfect your craft. We’d have a lot in common if you participated in outdoor recreation (like stand up paddle boards, kayaking, sailing, camping (not glamping), hiking, ziplining, running), listened to motivational media, and focused on a holistic lifestyle. Maturity, self improvement and being a dog lover is a must. I am looking for a man that wants to lead with trust, benevolence, and respect. There is a difference between being controlling and being a leader. A good man in charge is enthusiastic about it but also understands the burden they have of leading me and taking care of my needs (emotionally, spiritually, and mentally). It’s not all sex satisfaction and “follow my rules”. My trust is a privilege that’s has to be earned and maintained.

A couple red flags I’m avoiding:
🚩Ambiguity in your purpose/goal
🚩Plays video games
🚩Dishonest (including half-truths)
🚩Can’t stand up to me or friends/family/coworkers
🚩Disrespectful

Here are some great topics we can start off on because I know talking can be hard:
What’s your football team?
What did you learn about anger from your parents?
What gives you hope?
Who is your favorite Pokemon? (If you say, Pikachu, go home!)
What is the best advice someone gave you?
What is the worst advice someone gave you?
What lesson do you wish people could learn if you had the world’s attention for 5 minutes?

Best of luck to everyone out there searching!