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Hi there, thanks for taking a look at my post. I previously had account here a couple of weeks back and had posted. I thought I had met someone for whom it was worth deleting my account (which I did), but it turns out that they lost interest. So I am back to give this another shot.
In today’s modern and progressive world, I really stand out for many reasons as I am not your average man. See below for a description of myself.
About Me:
- Hispanic - I speak spanish (my first language), but english is my primary language (no real accent)
- Tall, slim and physically healthy; I work out regularly
- Shaved head, dark eyes
- INFJ - I used to be ISFJ before but I'm probably in between the two. Anyway, I'm definitely introverted, more reserved than anything. I'm not shy, I just don't really seek people out. If I feel comfortable with you, I let out my inner goofball ;)
- Very genuine and honest/transparent - I only know how to be me and cannot be fake
- Empathic and a great listener - can connect on a deep level with someone who is open
- Affectionate and loving
- Hardworking, patient, gentle, a good teacher
- Well educated, with a PhD from an ivy league school and a well-paying job in STEM; financially stable
- Christ follower - I hold my faith very strongly and it is a huge part of my identity
- Very traditional - chivalrous and self sacrificing leader in most aspects. I want to be a protective, loving provider/breadwinner
- Nerdy - very into niche video games and anime/shows
- A homebody - I’m not into traveling much, maybe 1-2 big trips a year at most. I prefer being cozy at home or going for walks in nearby nature
- A father of two kids and previous marriage experience - I realize these are dealbreakers for most women but these are actually very valuable experiences that would be very beneficial for any future marriage.
I seek a woman who would be interested in getting to know each other so as to assess whether I should court her, aka date her with the intention of marrying her. I am not seeking to rush into marriage and would rather let the relationship play itself out naturally. I am a traditional man and thus I envision a dynamic where I lead, protect, and provide, while she submits, supports, and is domestically-oriented. Mind you, I wish to lovingly support my future partner and so I would be flexible with her lifestyle, if that means staying at home or working. Ideally, this woman should have the following qualities. However, if you don’t fit everything perfectly and are interested in talking, please do reach out.
About You:
- Preferably in USA, but not a hard requirement if you are willing to relocate
- Traditional - You should want to live out a life of submitting to your husband and tending to the houshold/family.
- Feminine - you like to be the least like a man as possible in appearance and behavior
- Christian to some degree or open to become a Christ follower
- Puts most importance in who a person is compared to their circumstances
- Younger than me
- In physical shape - you don't have to be a super model, but it is very important to me that you take care of your body so that you can be healthy.
- Take care of your appearance - I wish for us to be physically attracted to each other, so you should dress decently and not look like a slob.
- Have similar hobbies or at least some hobbies in common so that way we have something we can bond over and do regularly.
- Personality-waise, please be humble and meek. I do not get along well with people who are judgmental or presumptuous.
- Good communication skills. A relationship is difficult, and a marriage even more, so it is important that we can talk to each other clearly and work out any differences in a calm manner.
- Would want to meet in person eventually in the future and not just have only online contact
I’m not certain that the woman I seek exists but if she does and you are her, please do reach out. I would like to find you one day and make you feel like the most special person in the world! Let's see what happens :) Thanks for reading my post and God bless.
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