Hello I'm 36 years old, male and a observant Muslim within the UK. I have been a kinkster online but that's largely due to stress relief from having been a carer long term for family.

What I offer:

A hearth. I live with my remaining living parent who as a son I have a responsibility to be close too and look after. When we marry you'll move in here and we will be there mostly until we can either afford a new place or have somewhere that we can stay at for a few months of the year as we build out our traditional marriage. I chose not to have sex and to wait for marriage. I was pretty much a tease at uni but always stopped short of taking things too far due to my faith and other reasons.

I will protect you and keep you safe and you will be the stable homelife that helps me build out a life for us.

Structures and rules, but flexibility. If I wanted someone strictly religious I could just marry a member of similar Muslim communities but I was born and brought up in the UK. I like my faith I like the country in which I am born and live and I am thankful for both.

Kink friendly. What does this mean? It means that within the context of our marriage we will explore our sexual desires to enhance our connection towards one another. I don't think here is the appropriate place for the detail. Mango. But I would for example, as I'm a big guy very large in terms of weight I would prefer a very small and slim spouse to enjoy the sexual dimorphism of being her big daddy from BioShock type of protector. I don't want a feeder I want someone that encourages me to be fit but who accepts me where I am. I'm very big and want to be healthy as well. I want a servant and someone that learns grows and listens. Kinks shouldn't shock this person but we couch things in terms of marriage and fidelity harmony and so on.

Faith. Someone open to accepting my faith but I wouldn't push it upon her. If someone is a bit less strict but a bit more obedient it's better.

A life where we live it to get connected to God and where the fulfillment in the life is our burgeoning connection and the family and people we help for the sake of God

Final point. I am unmarried, I would like to have two wives. (My faith allows up to four id treated well and equally). If we marry you just be open to the fact I may get a second wife. It shouldn't worry your heart. That doesn't mean I would but being open to the possibility of it is welcome.

If you are interested in this and serious about it, we can take the steps to get talking and go from there. This is a tradition that harkens back for centuries and centuries.

If you've read this all carefully and are interested please message me with the name of the fruit in my post so I know it is a legitimate person that took some time to read. Thanks