I am perfectly happy for this to begin online. But I will expect it to move in person eventually. So be willing to move or be willing to do the leg work in finding a place for us so I can move to you.

My name is Joe. I’m a 37 year old white man. I’m 6ft, 230lbs, brown hair, blue eyes, and I wear glasses. I have a full time job, own a car and a boat, and have great credit. I’ve never been married, I have no children, and I am disease free.

I love to travel, especially to Europe. But around the USA and other places as well. I’ve enjoyed my travels but I miss having someone to share it with. And someone to be with when I’m not traveling.

I would also consider myself to be a bit of a nerd. I like super heroes, fantasy books, D&D, and board games. Among other nerdy things.

That doesn’t mean that I dislike sports or anything though. I love sports. Particularly college basketball. I also enjoy going hiking and going out to the lake for the day. I’m also trying to get back into the gym. I’ve put on some extra weight and having someone who already works out to encourage me to join them would be a big motivator.

Ultimately I do want to get married. Jury is out on if I want kinds or not. I love kids, but they come with challenges. I would probably leave it up to my partner, so if you want a big family let’s go for it. If you want to be child free, let’s enjoy all our extra money.

I do have kinks and preferences and what not and it would be great if you enjoy at least some of them. But kink and sex is only 1 aspect of who I am and what I’m looking for… it’s a big part sure. But I want a partner I can connect with on multiple levels. Plus, vanilla and romantic stuff is pretty awesome sometimes too. Haha.

I enjoy feeling like a provider and that you respect me and trust me.

I value traditional gender roles in my relationships. I don’t know if they work for everyone but I am most fulfilled when they are being fulfilled. I want to provide and take care of things around the house. I want to be respected and revered and to feel powerful. I like when my partner is submissive yet supportive. You don’t have to be a doormat, we can discuss important topics and issues. But at the end of the day I make decisions and I’m the head of the house hold. And you have your own duties.

Enough about me. Let’s talk about what I’m looking for.

For starters I’m not interested in anyone over 40. I’d love to meet a younger woman but it isn’t a requirement. It is a requirement that you be at least 18 though.

Physically I find many physical types and styles attractive. But to cut down on some things, I would prefer you to weigh less than me and to have all of your teeth. I don’t think that’s too restrictive. Haha.

And as a general rule I find perkiness to be better than size… but size is pretty nice too. lol. And don’t be a slob, at least not all the time. Care about how you look and your hygiene. A few other things that always grab my attention, appropriate amounts of makeup and proper posture. Wearing clothes that are flattering regardless of style. Your smile and eyes. And if we want to get a bit more superficial, yes a flat stomach or at least a stomach that doesn't hang over your belt. But that is less important than you may think

It would be ideal if I could find a girl who enjoyed going out regularly and would encourage me to get out more too. Not every night. But I’m tired of getting off of work, doing chores around the house, and watching Netflix every day.

If you share some of my interests, that’s awesome! Let’s geek out together. If you have different interests, that’s cool too. Tell me about them and teach them to me.

At the end of the day I’m just looking for a woman who makes me feel alive and young again. A woman who makes me feel respected and loved and desired. A woman who makes me feel powerful and smart and funny. A woman I can go out with. A woman I can come home to. A woman I can take care of and will take care of me in return. A woman I can love and who will love me back.

Oh! Two more quick things.

I will expect you to share a picture of yourself eventually. I am looking for something real not just some text exchanges. If we talk for weeks and you aren’t willing to share what you look like… let’s not waste each other’s time. I want to share pics, videos, and calls.

I’m not rich. But I do make enough to provide for us if you don’t want to work. However, if you ask me for money before we have met in person I’ll assume it’s all you’re interested in and cut contact.

Anyway, this has gotten longer than I intended it to be. Tell me about yourself and feel free to ask me more about myself. I look forward to hearing from you and getting to know you.