Good day, everyone! I am a 23-year-old British Christian patriarchal man seeking a traditional Christian wife to share a life together. I love traditional values and what they can do for us personally and interpersonally and so I desire to find a woman who shares those views.

Here is a bit about me and what I value:

About Me:

• I very much believe in the traditional framework of the husband being the head of his wife. I desire to be her leader, provider and protector.
• I am currently pursuing a part-time science degree out of passion, with the goal of getting a doctorate in quantum physics.
• I am financially stable, guaranteed for at least the next five years and am able to support a stay-at-home wife who chooses not to work.
• I am an Anglican and deeply devoted to God, studying apologetics, and aspiring to be a husband guided by Biblical principles.
• I am handy and exercise regularly, I have an athletic build.
• I am an extrovert who enjoys gaming, television, friendly debates, and exploring topics like politics, psychology, and philosophy.

For what I am Looking:

• I am seeking a committed relationship leading to marriage, where I aim to be a supportive head of the household while my wife nurtures our home and relationship.
• I am looking for a wife who loves the role in marriage of being a helpmate, cheerleader, confidant, waitress, nurture and bedfellow of her husband.
• We should both care about being fit and healthy and maintaining appearance.
• I want a dedicated Protestant partner who values her role as a wife and prioritises her relationship with God.
• We should both believe in a hierarchy of priorities: God first, then us, followed by our community and beyond.
• We should both have a respectful and loving approach to intimacy, viewing it as a sacred gift within marriage.

The Bedroom:

• I am a virgin but I do not mind if you are not as we have all fallen short in one way or another; my main focus is that you view intimacy as a beautiful gift from God within marriage and are willing to wait until that sacred union for us to be intimate.
• Rather uniquely, I do not ever what to engage in PIV, instead preferring different methods of intercourse, toys, outercouse, and other forms of sex.
• I am open to exploring various kinks, so I am happy with pretty much anything you would like to do. Never having experienced sex, at the moment by biggest desire is to just bond with and pleasure my wife.
• Speaking of exploration just because you will be submissive in our relationship, does not mean I will always want you to be in the bedroom, but we shall have to wait and see.
• Both of us will be free use to the other for whenever needed or desired

Baggage:

• We all carry baggage and have all made mistakes, and it is unrealistic to expect a flawless spouse, despite what some may claim on Reddit.
• What I think is crucial is how individuals handle their own faults and past errors. I believe the best expectation is for everyone to acknowledge their wrongdoings, seek repentance, learn from their past sins, and actively strive to improve, all with God’s help. This is the approach I have, and it is what I seek in a wife as well.
• I am not so much concerned about your past, as much as how you have moved on from it; whether you have struggled with alcohol, followed a different faith, done p-rn, or even went to prison for murder; what matters most is your demonstration of redemption. I value someone who can effectively navigate challenges and guilt in a constructive, Godly manner.
• I believe that spouses should excel in each other’s deficits; so we should be strong where the other is weak, so we can support each other lovingly and proactively when we struggle with our own flaws and deficiencies.

A Few Details:

• I do not want to have children and thus I am seeking a wife who shares this view.
• I am committed to the sanctity of marriage and do not believe in divorce, so I am seeking a partner with similar convictions. When I vow to be with my wife “for better, for worse… until death do we part” I intend to mean it.
• I am open to a long distance relationship, but not relocation.

If you resonate with these values and are interested in embarking on a journey together, feel free to reach out. Let us explore the possibilities of a meaningful and fulfilling partnership, leading to marriage, built on a traditional structure of gender roles, faith, respect, and love.

Looking forward to connecting with you.