I'm moving to California in a week or so. Currently in Indiana, and I don't care where you are located. If we click, that is what matters most.

I am happy with many types of relationships, but I hold a special place for the traditional lifestyle. I've always wanted to come home to a clean house where my partner is free from intense work and is able to pursue her hobbies and passions (but also keeping the house clean, and rearing the children). I do find it a little odd that this type of life is now often considered a kink, but whether a kink or not, I would love to explore it with the right woman. I understand that real life can take us out of the ideal. For me, this should always be our north star even if we have to stray because of obstacles in our lives.

About me: I live my life in color. What does that mean? I have tried to accept that life is far too complicated to follow a strict code of rules, it's too complicated for shades of grey. I do try to live by what I believe is right, but there is truth in everything and that is what gives the world its color.

I want to explore this colorful life! From witnessing the wilds of this world to delving into the depth of humanity, I will never have enough experiences. But I don't have anyone to share them with. I'm tired of being alone. Don't take this wrong, I am good at being alone. I relish the somber quiet that fills the cold air as I alone witness the sunrise on the mountainside. I prefer to feel my feet pound the asphalt by myself as I suffer through gasps of air and my favorite podcast. One of my favorite saturday activities is listening to indie music on my headphones (with a dash of big names) with no one around to tell me I'm wrong.

Yet, I think I am ready to have someone closer than I can get alone. I'm looking for the person I can be a bit of an academic with and discuss politics, religion, and philosophy. I'm looking for a person who wants to see the great trees of California and Niagara in New York. I will still be an introvert, and want some alone time, but ideally, that we have built such an in sync relationship, that I don't feel the need to be alone with you.

I’m looking for a partner who wants to help challenge and be challenged by me. Whether we are talking about life or playing a video/board game. I want to be energized by her

On BDSM: I don’t care if you’re a brat, sub, or little. I want to explore a relationship with you because of how we connect. Kink is second, necessary, but second. Ideally, you would be interested in some of mine (which include TPE, CNC, Impact play, and many more), but we can go into detail as we get to know each other.

I love earning complete control of my submissive, and I want to eventually have complete authority. Most of the time I will try to make you the best person you can be, but occasionally, I will enjoy you for my own sake. I’m looking for a submissive who wants to give me veto control in most things in her life. Ideally, I want her to be a housewife, but this isn’t necessary. Whether I’m your daddy, sir, or master, I will want to build you into the person we want you to become. I enjoy watching my sub become her best self.

My dominance style is a little different with each submissive I’ve had. Generally, it falls more into the caring, but strict dom. I Can have a bit of a mean streak in me. I’m kind of like an inverse sour candy. I start sweet, and if I trust you, you can see some of me raw. I want someone who can see these parts and love me in my best and worst lights.

Here are a couple of photos of me. Physical attraction is important to me, and I’d feel like a hypocrite if I didn’t show myself upfront. If you include a photo, you will be prioritized. But let's be real, I’m a male looking for a woman on the internet. There is no queue.

My limits are scat, gore, and permanent harm.

Let's not spend our lives alone. I think this is a great day to start something new! I hope to see your orange message in my mailbox soon!