Hi everyone. I’m a 40-year-old man based in Yorkshire, England. I’m single, never married, with no kids, and am looking to meet a woman for a traditional relationship involving spanking for discipline.

The kind of dynamic I’m looking for is an old-fashioned one between a man and a woman. One where I take the lead and am the head of the household, providing protection and support and guidance for my partner, who in turn looks up to and places her trust in me. A relationship where I help my partner to be the person she wants to be, including setting rules and boundaries and enforcing them with old-fashioned, over-the-knee spankings. Communication and overarching consent are key though - this is something we’d need to work up to slowly and by mutual consent. I’m a caring, loving guy and not a sadist, so it’s all about approaching things in a way that works for us both.

I’m 6ft tall, about 170 lbs (78kg), slim, and in decent shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I’m intelligent, well-educated, attractive (so I’m told!), and successful. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I’m naturally a bit reserved, but also sociable and adventurous. I tend to see the lighter side of life and think that laughing is often the most important thing. I like to spend time outdoors (camping and walking), I love reading and quiet nights in, and I often watch films and TV series and go to the theatre or to see live music with friends.

I tend to be attracted to slim/petite, feminine women who like ‘traditional’ roles and activities. You’ll probably be in your mid to late 20s or 30s, but for the right person age shouldn’t be a barrier, so don’t let age stop you contacting me (adults only though, obviously). I’d love to meet someone intelligent, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. Someone fit, who looks after themselves and their health. Someone curious about the world, who dreams of meeting a man she can grow to trust and respect.

For some reason, I find shyness and nervousness attractive, and I like to provide guidance to the girl I’m with, as well as emotional support and reassurance, lots and lots of cuddles (especially with my partner sitting on my knee), holding hands, physical affection, and forehead kisses. I will also be firm with you when it’s appropriate, but communication on this is really important. I love to look after my partner and make her feel safe, and I think I’m pretty good with people who are on the shy or anxious side, or who are nervous because of inexperience.

I’m not looking to have children, so if that’s a dealbreaker then I’m not for you. (It’s not that I don’t like children - I have a good reason. Just ask and I’ll be happy to explain.)

If it sounds like we might get on, drop me a message or a chat request. While ideally you’d be based in the UK, I’m happy to chat to people elsewhere too. I look forward to chatting!