Hello there!

I'm a 30-year-old BBW on a self-improvement journey, looking to become a homemaker for the right Dominant man. Regarding my appearance: While I currently have what could be called androgynous nerd vibe, I'm looking to develop a much more feminine and 40s and 50s inspired goth aesthetic, especially as I lose weight. I have medium dyed auburn hair that I'm growing out, a love for dogs, live music, and the occasional trip to the beach.

I'm White, 5'4", and around 255 lbs. Despite my size, I'm now quite active and working on becoming my best self, inside and out. I'm also very service-oriented and love making my partner feel special. While I've been married and divorced twice, I've grown a lot from those experiences.

While sexuality is important, PLEASE don’t focus too much on sex in the beginning beyond ensuring compatibility; I want so much more than that. This is a lifestyle, not just a kink for me.

I am eager to take on the role of a supportive and nurturing partner. I'm excited to learn and improve my domestic skills, embracing the homemaker role of creating a warm and loving home. I’m open to either monogamy or nonmonogamy, depending on what works best for us.

While I’d like to continue working part-time if possible, I'm seeking a simple, fulfilling life as a devoted homemaker and domestic slave. I dream of creating a welcoming home filled with warmth and love. My days would be spent cooking delicious meals, keeping the house cozy and clean, and ensuring everything is just right for your return from work. I find joy in the little things—ironing your shirts, making your favorite dish, and planning our weekends together.  

I'm looking for a man, preferably over 30, who is politically moderate to conservative. Financial security and a good career is very appealing in this context. You should be intelligent, both generally and conversationally. I'm attracted to men who are White or mixed race with a primarily White appearance, and you should be muscular and strong, while other aspects of body composition are mostly irrelevant.

I’m seeking a natural leader who is dominant both in and out of the bedroom. You should be willing and able to provide guidance and structure, as I'm looking for someone to take charge and truly take on the Head of Household role. Ideally, you don't want kids, as I can’t have any, and you don't currently have small children. Loving animals, especially dogs, is a must.

I live in Titusville, Florida, although I’m open to eventually relocating anywhere in Florida. Feel free to contact me if you live in Orlando, Palm Bay, Melbourne, Daytona Beach, Sanford, or other areas in Central Florida or specifically the Space Coast. I ideally want to stay in Florida as long as my parents are alive, and they are not going anywhere soon. I try to meet in person after speaking for a few days, as assessing our chemistry is important to me.

If you think we desire the same lifestyle, please feel free to send me a message! I’m not on Reddit often, so please be prepared to move to a messaging app or texting early on.