Question for you: Do you feel disconnected from or even repelled by modern dating/hookup culture--the casualness of it, how it seems geared more towards filling time with fleeting pleasures than forming something lasting and real? Do you wish for a mingling of traditional life and love, paired with rough treatment and the comfort of being completely and utterly owned? Can you take a spanking and fill out a negligee the way I like? What are some of your favorite books, bands and shows? Is it too early to wonder about some of these things? Probably, I am just being cheeky. But if any of those questions caught your attention, do keep reading.

About me: Single and looking to change that once and for all. I am open to long distance for a short time, with the understanding that we close the gap sooner rather than later. In the meantime, expect frequent to constant messages and calls, virtual show and movie dates , shared thoughts and laying of future plans. Down the line, I want to spoon by the fire with you while our children sleep upstairs.

My father is the stern old white guy I am becoming more like every day, and my mother is a short pretty Asian lady. So I'm mixed and am often mistaken for Native, Hispanic or on my very good days, Keanu. I am also totally blind, which has about as much to do with who I am as a person as my race does. But it rarely comes up in conversation so if I don't say it now I would more than likely forget to bring it up at all. Then we would meet up for the first time and you'd be confused and dismayed. That said I am quite independent--I work a steady 9-5, go out on my own and have lived on my own since graduating high school without starving to death or burning any houses down.

In addition to the children I will want with you, I also have a twelve-year-old daughter. She lives out of state with her mother, though we spend holidays and things together (My daughter and I, not my ex and I, that would be weird).

My free time when not lazing about is spent playing guitar, doing standup comedy and gaming. D&D, Path Finder and textbased MUDs primarily. When it comes to entertainment, I tend toward things within the comedy, horror, scifi/fantasy and Urban Fantasy genres. To demonstrate, I am about halfway through my third rereading of A Dance with Dragons and am about to crack open the Stormlight Archives again after taking a bit of a break from it. I also make audio dramas for youtube. Yes, despite being a blue-collar working man I am a geek and homebody. Do you do anything artsy and creative? If it's in the visual medium I hope you don't mind describing your work to me. If you sing or play an instrument, expect me to request demonstrations and/or collaborations frequently.

Professionally I'm in manufacturing, voice acting and writing. When the time and money are right, I will open the best cafe and tabletop gaming lounge the world has ever seen.

I am a conservative, just so you know what you would be getting yourself into, girl currently living in our enlightened and clearly sane and successful age. So this will probably work better if you also lean right, or are at least not hostile towards it. I am a budding Catholic and proud military brat with classical Western values despite a mildly goth aesthetic and certain tastes and interests slightly off the beaten path. This is to say I believe man submits to God, and woman submits to man. As mentioned above, my goal is to mary, start a family and lead a household. I view it as not only my duty as a man, but my honor to protect and provide a home for the right woman. That woman would be the type of modest, tender companion who would consider it her duty and honor to warm that home, and fill it with love and peace (and to fight through that feminine modesty when pleasing me).

The modern sorts might find me overly jealous and possessive, perhaps even controling. By their standards, they would be correct and I make no apologies for that. What is mine is mine. And this would definitely include you. I am fiercely mmonogamous, authoritative and well-prepared to protect, provide for, love and when necessary, guide and correct you. What I expect in return is your love, trust, submission and obedience. In short, just be a good girl for me and I will take care of you always. That might mean being a little stern or rough with you from time to time. The right woman will not only understand this, but cherish it.

Musically speaking, I love the country my parents played when I was a kid, the pop punk and alt rock I discovered as an angsty goth teen, the different flavors of metal I discovered in college, and the oldies that oddly keep popping up in my Spotify recommendations. Do you have something different you'd like to show me? Or even just more of the same? Now for the slap and tickle of it. Usually when I describe my sexual proclivities, it's through a scattered series of vague, nonspecific quips in the presence of close friends. Doing it directly on a public forum feels... odd. You should know, Future Missus, I'm doing this for you. So, I am definitely dominant. Reasonably quick to praise or degrade, spank or caress, bite or kiss, praise or punish depending on a combination of my mood and your behavior. Roughness, leaving marks, impact, TPE, wardrobe control, and a great deal more. One of my greatest joys is provoking responses from you. Are you shy and given to breathless little yelps and squeaks? Do you sing your pleasure out, loud and helpless to contain it? Or do you stubbornly try to hold it back until you just can't anymore? Whatever your mode of expression, I'm sure it will be just the thing to savor. Sometimes I will want to strip you to the skin and be rather mean to you, other times I will want nothing more than to pet your butt, stroke your hair and hand-feed you Oreos. Regardless the mood however, expect enough creampies to stock a bakery for months at a time.

I think that's enough revealing smut for the time being. The rest you can learn the organic way should we make it to the boudoir.

That was a lot about me, let's talk briefly about you. Local to Nc or willing to relocate in a reasonable timeframe is very important, I will not do long distance long term. You can drive, right? That is an absolute must, I cannot for obvious reasons and Uber gets very expensive after a while. I might need to borrow your eyes from time to time as well. "What does this say? How does the weather look today? Is this Otter Pop blue or purple? Junior's forehead feels hot, how does his color look?" You understand. Also, are you pretty? Do you take care of yourself? I'm no chiseled 10 by any means, but I do put forth effort to make myself pleasant to see and be seen with. I would expect the same from you. Look like you care what you look like. Be White, Asian, Latina or any combination thereof. Have the hips and bust to deliver and nurse our children (and to fill my hands of course), and a dip in the waist where I can place my hands when I hold you. And please for the love of all that is sacred, have long hair. I am not one for all this head shaving, mohawking, under cutting and other nonsense so popular with young women these days. Show me your youth and vitality with a lush and beautiful mane of hair I can lose my hands or bury my face in.

If you made it through all that and think I might be what you're looking for and vice versa, I invite you to get in touch. Tell me about yourself--what you look like, how you feel about what I've written here, give me an idea of who you are. Also be ready to move off Reddit to Discord and/or the phone in short order if we get along well. And just for being a good sport in reading everything, here's a little sample of my speaking voice. https://soundgasm.net/u/OurloveisGod/You-Made-It