Hi all, thanks for checking out my post! I am a male Dom in Raleigh NC, and I'm looking for a long-term relationship that has the potential to lead towards marriage. I'm primarily interested in a relationship based on traditional, patriarchal gender roles: the man in charge to guide, protect, discipline, and provide; the woman to submit, serve, support, and please. I'm also looking for more than just a dynamic; I'm looking for a real relationship with genuine interest, an emotional connection, and a life we can build together.

As a Christian, I am also primarily looking for a fellow believer; I believe it is important that we are on the same page about our faith. I am also waiting until marriage to have sex; I know that can be a dealbreaker for many, but I think it's important to be clear on that from the start.

Vanilla me: I'm white, 5'9", fit. I'm into most nerdy things, including reading books, video games, LEGO, Dungeons & Dragons, hanging out in coffee shops, and bowling. I am involved in my church, and I enjoy hanging out with friends or tinkering with some of the tech I've picked up.

Kinky me: I'm a Dom, interested primarily in a blend of a 1950s traditional relationship, a bit of DD/lg, along with Master/slave or Owner/toy. I'd also be interested in developing a TPE over time. Some of my kinks include orgasm control, restraints, wardrobe control, collaring, discipline, training, spanking, and free use.

About you: cis female, preferably 20-29, located in the US. Submissive, and looking to build a long-term relationship with a desire to one day be married. You find freedom in surrendering control, pleasure in pleasing, and joy in service. You're looking for someone you can surrender to completely, that you can trust will make the tough decisions for you while you support with everything you have.

If that sounds like what you are interested in, feel free to send me a chat and give me a quick intro about yourself and what you are looking for in a relationship.