Hey guys, I’m super new here. So I’ll give you the run down, me and my ex… we’ll call her D have been on and off for awhile. She was my first kiss, my first love, everything under the sun besides taking my V-card. We got back together in 2016 and it ended horribly, she ended up cheating on me with someone I knew and was bullied by in high school.

During this time, she was in and out of that relationship with him and in and out with me. For about 4-5 years we’ve broken up and gotten back together atleast 10-15 times. 4 years ago, we decided to try one last time and we stuck through it! We even got engaged in 2023 and I thought my life was coming together finally.

2 weeks ago, D texted me saying that she was done with me out of the blue and that she would be coming to pick up her stuff and drop the ring. She left me over text, I thought I had earned alittle more respect then that but whatever. Last night, we decided to talk one on one in person and I THOUGHT we decided to work it out until earlier today when she said her parents disapproved. I love her parents, I did anything for them, even helped my mother in law move her mom and fix things around their house. But I was the problem because I told my fiance when she was doing something wrong, like walking down an ally at 2am in a bad neighborhood while trashed.

I just need advice, I love this girl but I also feel like I’m wasting all of my time worrying every minute about her.