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She lied to me about going out with other people who she has been hanging out with quite a while.I hate them bcuz they talk shit about me and apparently they talked shit in front of my bestfriend once and she cudnt say anything bvuz she froze up.I forgave her for that but yesterday she lied to me about going out with them,bcuz according to her i wudnt understand why she cant say no to them when they wanna go out.She excuses herself for being a people pleaser thats why she cant say no to them but whenever we have plans she cancels them.I have been crying about this so much,and im in the middle of my exams.What should i do?
It sounds like your friend has a problem setting boundaries with people and if she’s not defending your name during shit talking she might agree with it or trying to remain neutral but if that’s something that happens often then that’s crazy for her to continue to ignore. And if she cancels your plans , she’s obviously not a people pleaser to you just to them
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That’s bullshit OP it should be the opposite