Me and my lady been together now 7 years and have 2 boys 5 & 4 and a Lil girl on the way in June my lady has 4 kids from previous relationship 16&15 year old daughters 20 year old son and 24 year old daughter that is trans which I have nothing against. Well 2 years ago we'll just call her/him K well K brang home a friend and said the friend would just be there for few days till her grandma could send her money for train / bus ticket to Vegas to go stay with her. Well after two weeks they both take off to Vegas and come back four days later talking about they got married. I was like WTF why. well fast forward now and they been staying with us for the past two years now and neither one of them does anything to help themselves or us. Well aside from watching the younger kids when me and my lady go out they really don't do shit my step daughter doesn't work or go to school. She has a lot of medical problems bad heart bad kidney bad stomach bad ovaries and is manic depressive bipolar. Her lazy bum ass girlfriend doesn't do shit either. Doesn't work go to school or help out around the house bitch can't even cook. And supposedly told our neighbor that she not gonna go to work because she's the female in the relationship and has to be taken care of (in my head I'm like bitch you smoking crack). Me and my lady are both fed up with both of them but we don't know what to do. Cause on one side that's her daughter and she has medical conditions and we both know tidy if we tell the other bitch to leave them her daughter will bounce out too. I'm to the point where I'm just like fuck it bye to the both of them but I don't say shit yet cause of my lady what should we do here