i’m thinking of attending oasis as a single female and wanted advice as to the best days to go. i’m 32, bisexual, and chubby/curvy

i’ve never been to a sex club before and don’t have anyone to go with (i don’t want to just find a date and set up expectations, i feel like it would be easier to communicate boundaries with people who have lifestyle experience), but i’m interested in observing and potentially taking part in club activities.

i’ve only been with men in the past and have never had group sex, though experiences with women and multiple partners are of interest to me. as a single female, would i be expected to interact with both halves of a couple, or are experiences with just one partner common?

are the newbie nights the way to go, or is another theme night a better option? i’d also be interested in a neon night or panty party.

any other tips you have would be lovely!