This post has been de-listed
It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.
Having spent some considerable time swiping left and right on dating apps, i have come to the conclusion that it is a futile event.
The first cause for concern is catfishing - it has been alleviated with verified profiles, but then the algorithm acts as your worst enemy - prior to subscribing for the paid service, i would get many notifications that 'someone is interested in you', since paying, that number has dwindled to 0.
I did meet someone and we are talking, but I do not see it going anywhere as there were some important pieces of information that were not put forward in her profile.
for someone that was married for 9 years, is in their late 30's, dating apps are a joke. It is bad enough the chemistry is removed from the equation, but some pictures are downright deceptive. ignoring people who use filters for their profile photos, the angle you present yourself from makes a ton of difference. Key word, ton.
Most people aren't even bothered to try to put their best foot forward; and it gets frustrating.
Rant mode off.
thank you for listening.
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 8 months ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/TorontoSing...