Hello! Im looking for advice. I dont use dating apps and have no interest in the weird twist internet culture has had on dating and socializing. Id like some more articulate people to help me figure out how to write what I want in a partner. Sometimes, when I explain a part or two about it, I get judged. But what I was doing was describing myself bc I want someone similar or the same in certain ways. Others dont matter. But how to describe my lifestyle and goals for that. When Id write serious relationship, people alqays ask me what Im looking for anyways but to the point they want me to describe it? Ive also expressed issues with men Ive dated which made me pull away, and the stranger will say its my job to chase around a man and to do all the house stuff myself and nag the man to keep it together in small ways while I do all the deep cleans and daily small ones. Im really tired of not having a comfortable date. And seemingly ignored at dates when I say and behave along the lines I had before it and during. There seems to be a weird tug of war going on to compromise my morales and values or that my morales and values will shift if theyre say hot enough or present weird things like gifts and promises. Desperate guys I guess. Im not desperate and there has been one or two in the past year that were behaving like that. Anyhoo, message me if youre good at figuring out how to articulate what someone wants out of life or a partner. Because translating that myself has not been working irl! The last 2 years. Never had problems with communication before; I think its possibly because of how diverse people are these days especially when you find them from a pit on the internet or through a friend or in the wild in public. I also looked up a match maker lmao out of curiosity but apparently theyre just for the uber rich to vet partners financially. At least where I am. - 37 Canadian Girl