So, this is my last attempt at trying to find someone. I foolishly redownloaded the apps only to realize why I got rid of them in the first place.

I’m a 30 year old female of West Indian decent. I’m not much to look at, if we’re being honest, I’m short and fat; but I believe I have a lot to offer a partner. I am working on myself, so all I ask is that you give me a chance.

I have a good head on my shoulders, a stable career and I live and work downtown. I’m respectful, ambitious and always root for those I’m with to succeed in their dreams. I want to grow and build a life with someone.

In my spare time I like to workout, walk around the city, go to shows, bars, and read. A perfect date to me is either grabbing some drinks at a low key bar spending the night getting to know each other and maybe an activity afterwards.

I’m looking for a relationship where my partner is my best friend. Someone who enjoys spending quality time going out and doing activities, but enjoys nights in, cooking and watching tv together. Someone who likes to spend their weekends browsing Indigo with a coffee in one hand, and mine in the other. Someone who is willing to go the distance in a relationship even when things get tough. I am someone who needs reassurances and I hope my potential partner is okay with that.

I’m looking for someone who has similar values to mine: honesty, respect, ambition, and open to a long term relationship. In terms of attractiveness, I’m looking for someone 5’7 and up, tattoos and beards are a plus, but I’m not so picky and open to all races, but have traditionally dated white, black and middle eastern men. I’m just looking for a connection and someone to help cure my disdain for dating.

Please be comfortable sharing pictures and willing to meet up without eventually ghosting.

ETA: I own a cat, she is a big part of my life, so hoping people are okay with that.