So I’ve been getting into bottoming recently but I’ve been struggling with the process of douching. I can’t really get the water to come back out and it becomes really uncomfortable and it’s whole thing.

Fast forward a couple weeks ago I planned a hookup, I really had to shit though so I went and handled that, took a shower and I took a soapy finger up there, I didn’t feel anything and it came out clean. And when I went to the hookup, there was no mess.

This made me think, could having a bowel movement (possibly induced by coffee) and then a shower be a good enough for most hookups?

What do y’all think? Open to any and all advice as well!