So I hooked up with this guy, when he was rubbing his cock on my ass, he came. I was a little baked and laughed (I know that was rude, it just happened instantly tho), I apologized promptly after tho. I asked him then when was the last time he had sex (I know it was such a stupid question)

I could see he was sad as I was watching him getting dressed to leave but I just couldn’t think of anything in the moment to say. I couldn’t understand what he was going through (I’m ftm myself).

I feel horrible for the way I acted and the fact that I didn’t know what to say. He blocked so I guess me shortly but I want to be prepared if this happens in future . Maybe I’m overthinking but I think he can be even traumatized and I hate that to happen.