Hey guys! I'm a closeted bi guy that wanted to ask some advice as newbie here on the gay dating scene.

It's no surprise that there's a lot of men out there who just want to use you to get themselves off and don't care much about your limits and your pleasure. Just before posting this I saw a post about a top taking his condom off without consent while fucking another guy.

But I'm aware that's not all of tops out there, so I'd like to ask my fellow bottoms how do you weed these guys that only care about their pleasure and nothig else? Do you impose limits upfront? Wait a longer while before fucking? Sleep with someone you already know? What would you suggest for a bottom that's looking for someone willing to please you as well?

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Thanks in advance!