Hello there, top here that recently got into edging and the benefits of semen retention. By edging and restraining from orgasm I am much more aroused and horny. I do love my solo sessions when I can dive into masturbation bliss for hours but when it comes to sex it’s totally different.

I do enjoy having a good time with a bottom and receiving pleasure, but most of the times I feel like it’s not over in the eyes of my partner, it’s not a “perfect session” unless I cum and I find that unfortunate. My bottom will beg for me to cum in/on him, but that creates a sort of anxiety to rush sex towards the finale.

Rather than pushing myself to cum and lay down depleted, I would simply love to have sex until we are too tired to continue, then start over and ride the edge and then cum at some point, when I can’t hold it anymore.

Frankly I don’t understand why sex has to revolve around the pursuit of orgasm. Once I cum, it takes a long time for me to wish for a second round. I get this “post-nut clarity” that takes me away from the fun.

So bottoms, how do you feel if your top doesn’t want to finish? Do you feel like the job is not done? Are there other tops that feel this way?