I'm a pretty sex-positive person. I like porn, dirty talk & erotica.

But I'm finding increasingly on apps people will lead with the strangest, porn-script-like messages that I just don't know how to reply to. Not because I'm awkward or prudish! But because a natural reply doesn't even make sense.

For example one leading message I got today out of the blue on an app (where I have a facepic & detailed bio) was something like "u wanna be my slave hole?"

This wasn't on a BDSM site, either. I just think... what response is that person hoping for? "Hell yes!"? Do they really think that's a likely response without any kind of buildup? Am I actually being prudey or crazy here?

I just think that look, I've been around the block as a btm. I know how to flirt & generally how to help guys get off. So..give me something to work with, eh? Not a non-sequitur. Just me?