I identify as a gay man, I love twinks and otters but ultimately my sexual attraction often comes down to whats between their legs.

I do my best to be a progressive guy, I STRONGLY believe that trans women are women and trans men are men (so seriously, take your gender critical or TERF bullshit out of here) and while I often find myself sincerely attracted to trans men romantically and emotionally, I often find myself thinking of the lack of dick downstairs would be a minus point sexually.

I LOVE dick. The shape, the sizes, the smell, the taste, cut and uncut. Dick in all of it's varieties works for me. It's my favourite thing about sex. And yeah, sometimes watching women with dicks gets me off.

So in other words, I feel romantically attracted to all men but only sexually attracted to people with dicks. Has anyone been able to reconcile these two conflicting attractions?