For whatever reason (not a popular area in this city, too many flakes and liars, etc) and including not having a FWB or boyfriend: I don’t get laid often. So when I am finally with a guy and we are about to fuck I am so excited (and emotional on the inside)! It doesn’t even take any work for me to be satisfied! As long as I’m attracted to the top, he’s nice and not doing or saying anything crazy I will be in full ecstasy with him inside me. Unfortunately i have consistently been fucked by quick cummers! After dealing with the agonizing prepping procedure and stressing over how long my body likes to make me wait to be able to bottom, I finally get laid and then it’s over before I even break a sweat! I don’t need or require a ridiculous long session and some times I do just want a quickie. However when both of us have established that we aren’t meeting for a 5-10 minutes quickie and when asked if he can last longer than 5-10 minutes ONCE he’s inside a hole and the top says yes I get excited and yet 99% of the time, the top will hold it forever when I’m sucking him but once he’s inside my hole he can’t last more than a few minutes and each time it’s a top that also can’t stay hard or get hard again soon enough to go round 2.

How can I stop going through this?!?! Is there some way to know for sure while chatting if a guy is going to bust quickly or be able to go 20 minutes or longer?