Even though I’ve been able to take small and large dicks in multiple positions, there are still a few angles or positions that are too uncomfortable for me. Some times it’s because the top is going too deep and some times it’s just the angle itself. I have to scoot away LOL or tell the top to stop and adjust the angle or get into another position.

since I don’t have a boyfriend or a FWB, I don’t get laid often. so I haven’t been able to practice these uncomfortable angles enough to get used to them. To make matters worse, if I tell a top what positions work for me or I adjust myself or us both so I’m comfortable, almost always whomever the top is, he will always put me back into the exact position I fucking said is toooooo uncomfortable for me! 😤🤬😡(For example: apparently I’m the only one who thinks missionary position is having the top lay flat on top of me and the bottom wraps arms and legs around the tops body! To the tops I’ve been with, for them it means me on my back and having my legs straight up! That’s the major one that makes me feel like a wall had just been put up and his dick is trying to bust through the wall)

I think if I were dealing with a patient top who completely understands that if he put his dick inside and just HOLDS it at a certain spot for a minute or 2 for my body to adjust to it, the uncomfortable feeling would then turn into pleasure!

since there’s no way of guaranteeing I’ll never have to deal with an impatient top again until I’m in a relationship, is there any tips, tricks, suggestions people can provide me with in order to quickly change pain into pleasure for positions that have not felt good for me??