I’m going to start off saying that I even hate labeling myself as Bi. Not cause I hate that I may be bi but the fact there is a a stigma for labels. I’ll preface this by saying that I identify as bi for now but I’m evolving to find my identity.

Now to get into things.

I’ve always been romantically involved with woman. I only get those loving feelings from them. When I’m bed with a lady I am the more dominant of the two in the relationship. But when it comes to men. FUCK. I just want to bend over for them and have them fuck me like no tomorrow.

I’m currently coming out of a 5 year relationship with a woman and am branching out and testing the waters again. During all the Covid shit I find it super hard to trust people and their social distancing stuff so I’ve been super careful. None the less let me get into the nitty gritty.

When it comes to men. I can’t help but want to be fucked. Something about a strong man taking that dominant control over me drives me crazy. But there are no romantic feelings present when it comes to men. It’s hard to put into words. The act of taking a cock is so damn hot to me and I can’t get it out of my head. Not being the one in control and being the one who is there to help please another is something that I crave. I cannot get it out of my head.

When it comes to hooking up and you meet a versatile guy it’s so annoying when they’re like oh you obvs wanna top cause your Bi. But damn why can’t a bi guy want to take a cock?

So my question is to all those other Bi bottoms. Why do you love it so much? And how do you get past the stigma of being a bi bottom?

P.S. So sorry for my rambling I’m totally a little bit drunk right now. Also totes open to questions about anything.