When it comes to women, I love being in control and love anal and vaginal sex. When it comes to men, I love oral and being a bottom. I was curious though, would I enjoy topping a guy if the situation was right? So I placed an ad on doublelist and explained the situation. One of the responses I got was from a nice guy. He was a first time bottom so we could try together. Well, he came in and I wasnt hard. I played with his ass and he even went down on me and started to get me hard, but I couldn't maintain the erection. I was soft before I could get the condom on. We tried for about 45 min. Me masturbating and him blowing me, but the dynamic just didnt feel right. After a while I told him it wasnt going to happen, but I would be happy to finish him off. He didn't want me going down on him and I tried to stroke him off, but nothing. I couldn't get him to cum. So we finally called it. I apologized again and he left.

So now I know. I like the guy I'm with to be in control and I greatly enjoy pleasing and being topped. So I'll leave that to the tops from now on lol