So I’ve been with my bf for five years and the first year of our relationship we unsuccessfully tried to get him to top but he never could. So for the last four years I’ve been the exclusive top which is fine but there’s something about bottoming for me that drives me wild. Like I’m pretty sure my body just craves it. So recently I’ve been hinting to him I’ve been wanting him to top but he told me anytime he thinks about it he loses his hard on. He doesn’t have any trauma regarding topping so I’m guessing it’s just a mental block? He gets hard when I grind my ass against him but the second I line him up it goes soft. Is there anything we can do or try?