I’ve got a very hot bottom buddy/ FWB (36M). As a vers guy I have loads of contacts, so my newly single buddy asks if I can help tick off a bucket item list: he wants to get a hotel room and sort out a few trusted tops to play with him.

Not quite a gang bang, because it’s not complete random, but clearly it’s gonna take some organising.

I have booked the room in King’s Cross (London, UK) for Saturday 3 June, got myself and one other top interested. And this is where we run into problems – because everybody else seems to be busy or won’t commit.

It’s super annoying because my buddy is really fit, sexy, a fantastic bottom, and really into doing this. He will be available from 4 pm until late – a good chunk of time, yet it feels impossible to get guys to come along.

Did I start looking too early? Have I left it too late? Any hints or tips to bring up the numbers? I’m not looking for a football crowd, just two or three more guys who want to play.