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How to ask a guy if he's a top or not?
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Ok, here's some context. I'm bi. I've done more than my fair share of hookups in the past and it'd always been easy to say "I'm a bottom, looking for a top". I've never actually pursued guys in dating apps or out in the wild before now. So I have a tinder and I've started talking to this guy. It's starting to get flirty and we're already talking about how we should just skip the formalities and have a Netflix and chill first date. We've talked about how we think each other is attractive, but other than that it's been pretty basic small talk conversation.

So, how does one bring up the subject of proffered positions? Since I'm.new to this, I don't want to jump the gun, but at the same time, it's the question I have. Is there a way to bring it up without sounding like a complete newbie or am I just over thinking it?

Edit: I asked him what he was into and he listed quite a few sexy things, and then said he was verse. I told him I was a bottom and he was honest with me and said it probably wouldn't work out. I told him I appreciated his honesty and wished him well

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