Someone posted the other day about two tops. Let me share a challenge in having at the moment. To start off, I'm just venting about my scenario. I am NOT saying that this is all verse guys out there.

I'm a bottom. I have fucked a guy successfully before, but I didn't get into it. (No pun intended). I know that I am a bottom for sure. I am a masculine bottom, but I still like the top to take the lead.

I have a fuck buddy I met on A4A. He is a verse, but definitely leans more towards a bottom. He's the one I topped one time. I was honest with him and told him that I preferred to just bottom and that I wanted him to take the lead a little more. To be a little more dominant in bed. So we're planning to hook up tomorrow and I'm talking dirty to him via text tonight. He's always finished in my ass and I always cum in his mouth, except for the time I came in his ass. So as I'm talking dirty to him, I tell him that he has his choice tomorrow. I can suck him off and cum in my mouth (since he hasn't done that yet and I know he thinks that's hot) or he can pump his load deep in my ass. His response? "It's whatever to want". I appreciate that he wants me to enjoy it just as much as he does, but this is the time I wished he'd understand that I get off by making his desires come to fruition. I enjoy meeting his demands. I enjoy the sexiness of doing what makes him happy and horny. I've told him this a couple of times, but he always wants me to make the decisions. So while I know he does like fucking me, personality wise, he acts more like a bottom (like me) than a top who knows what he wants from a willing bottom.

Ok, vent over. Like I said, I know that not all verse personalities are the same and that there are a lot of type casts with all of the gay/bi position labels. This is just what I'm experiencing right now.