I know I want too surgery I feel like I have always known this, there is no doubt in my mind it is right for me However I’m autistic and have severe anxiety especially surrounding hospitals. It’s hard to say exactly how I will be when the time does eventually come but I often struggle to speak due to it and can be very anxious and panicky. I’ve had general anaesthetic before so I know how it works but I was really anxious and overwhelmed. It might be different as I know this is something I desperately want rather than being forced to have it for my wellbeing.

Will this effect my surgery, could they refuse to do it if I present too anxious? Are there some surgeons who are better with anxious patients than others?

I’m thinking of starting the process in the new year so want to be as informed as possible.

I know some may advise that I wait till I have my anxiety more under control but I fear that may never happen as I have been this way my whole life and have had many psychological interventions etc. it’s something I’ve learned to live with I just really hope it doesn’t stop me from getting surgery