34M: We are a year into our relationship, which has been long distance up until now. Everything has been great except the sex. We have similar views, living style, both are travelers, have similar tastes in foods, humor, desires, and openness and experience in kink and other fetishes....but there seems to be a more often then not constant disconnect that or my libido just doesn't work. I don't want to move on from a great relationship but I don't want us to be plagued by bad sex because of a lack of attraction or libido ... What would you do? ( We have spoken about it, but at this point I want to DO something) it seems like something I need to work on.

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