Not sure if this is actually NSFW so I marked it as such just to be safe.

I'm a 38M married guy. I'm in an ENM/Poly/Open relationship. My wife already has male friends and suitors while I can't even get people to talk as friends. It's very sad to admit I don't actually have any and am starting to feel lonely for friends. I would very much like to find like minded people so IF more comes of it, awesome.

So basically my question is this. Does anybody know of any really good sites/apps to meet local people that are into ENM/Poly/Open relationships? The ideal site/app would be 100% free. To like, unlimited messages and all.

Also if anybody just wants to chat, DMs are open.

Thanks in advance!