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Noted. I dropped the bathroom one already and plan on replacing it with one where I'm dressed up, but in a better environment, and I have pictures with my friends they just always turn out not being high quality, so I'll try to get one that is.
Thank you to you and your wife! I shaved the goatee, and I think I'm just gunna scrap the stache for now as well lol
Good call. I do have to dress up nice for my work, and I'm in need of some actual wax for my stache because the balm I have currently isn't cutting it. I'll definitely keep that in mind!
Doing it up now. I just need to invest in some stronger holding moustache wax
Sadly my beard grows in nowhere near as nicely as my moustache
Oh I'm aware of that. Never been one to change who I am to be more appealing to the general population. The thing is I get next to 0 activity on my account and I've been doing everything to keep from getting a low elo
Aye I appreciate it man, but I think the moustache is coming off for now. I've always wanted to grow a full beard actually, and I think I'm gunna take this opportunity to get some products so that I can attempt that!
Here's me with a shaved face and genuine smile. https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
Also my bio now reads: Date idea: You tell me your favorite food and I cook it for us. Musically I'm all over the place, so I'll gladly take requests, just not while I'm on stage. As you can see, my kitten is my biggest fan.
Please upvote this comment so everyone can see the updates lol
I'm not gunna stay completely clean shaven, but this might give me the opportunity to look into getting some products to help me grow in a full beard actually! :)
Exactly I'm all about change! Growth is key to life. If you're not growing you're dead!
I'm not trying to be flooded in likes. I just have next to no activity on my account, and no I'm not shadow banned either. I know that I definitely have a unique appearance, but thanks I'll have to try bumble out!
Date idea: You tell me your favorite food and I cook it for us. Musically I'm all over the place, so I'll gladly take requests, just not while I'm on stage. As you can see, my kitten is my biggest fan.
Here's my current, current bio. Although I love the Gordon Ramsey line. Might need to take that into consideration lol
Thanks, that's what I'm trying to do now! I got like 1000x more responses than I expected from this, so it's a lot of info I'm trying to organize it all now 😂
I'll definitely take this advice once I get back home to my baby 😁
Well I did the opposite of this because I feel like my wiry long goatee definitely looked worse than my moustache. Plus I've received numerous compliments on my moustache, but never once my goatee lol
Will do! I do enjoy changing my look up somewhat often, and I've been rocking this particular facial hair for a few months now, so it might be a pleasant change, but I'll also do that. I just don't like how I look in photos with a full smile a lot of the time
I use moisturizers and balms daily, but I think I'll cut the goatee. I recently took the pointed approach, but I'm not necessarily attached to that portion of my facial hair.
Here's me with a shaved face and genuine smile. https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
Also my bio now reads: Date idea: You tell me your favorite food and I cook it for us. Musically I'm all over the place, so I'll gladly take requests, just not while I'm on stage. As you can see, my kitten is my biggest fan.
Please upvote this comment so everyone can see the updates lol
And here's the profile! https://imgur.com/a/0WKSOOp
Thank you! I already just switched my bio and went more straightforward with it instead of trying to be gimmicky!
Alright y'all. I've taken some advice from you and this is the updated profile. https://imgur.com/a/gjr0Nui
Thanks for the advice. Trust me you're not the first one to make the pube face joke 😂 but I'm going to trim the goatee off here in a bit
I hit the gym regularly. I'm down 40lbs from where I was at last year and I'm in overall physical good shape. Just don't have any pics that show it
I've got an event I need to dress up for on new years eve, so I'll be using that also as a photo op lol
Yeah I went and edited my bio up a little bit at the advice of another commentator, but thank you!
Oh of course. Thats definitely a big part of writing anything. Making it sound natural
Yeah that's some really solid advice. I work in sales so it's literally part of my job to relate with other people and I'm pretty good at it. I'm also an avid reader, so this is really a great idea.
I'm honestly thinking of getting rid of the goatee, but I'm definitely keeping the stache
This is funny. My new job I just started a few weeks ago requires me to wear slacks, and a dress shirt, so I spend most of my time after work in my slacks and white undershirt. Very similar to this style 😂
I honestly think my moustache was just really out of place when I was smiling with my teeth, I immediately was wowed at how much better my smile looked without it!
Trust me. I stopped letting it get to me at least 500 comments ago 😂
I mean I can show you my account, it's definitely not popular 🙃 currently have 1 whole like and like 2 matches that I never even heard back from. If anything this was more of a confidence booster to make sure that my face doesn't inspire disgust lol
Darn 😫 lmfao but glad you found someone! Thanks for the advice, the bathroom pic is already nixed!
Definitely not transitioning, just got my mothers hair lol. All I've really done as far as cuts go is just the occasional trim, so I definitely think going and getting it cut into an actual style would be nice!
So I definitely have made some improvements to my profile, and shaved. As far as the Jon snow hairstyle I've definitely thought about getting some degree of a perm since my hair is naturally so straight. Here's the updated look and profile though! https://imgur.com/a/numpf8N https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
I'm real excited to get some new pics and see the results! :)
Fuck you got me there 😂 thankfully I'm clean shaven now and happy with it 😂
Oops I forgot to post this as well! Clean shaven, now I just need new pictures! https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
Damn! I like that! Well I shaved myself clean, and I think of anything I'm gunna invest in some proper products for beard growth and hopefully I can go for something like this down the line!
Thank you for all of this! I really appreciate it! You should try and find my updated post with my current profile and bio, and a pic of me clean shaven. I decided to start from zero with my facial hair, but I really appreciate the sentiment and time you took to relay this info 💜
For sure man. I'll shoot you a dm so I can have you if I ever am in need again. You've been very helpful :)
And here is the newest bio
Date idea: You tell me your favorite food and I cook it for us. Musically I'm all over the place, so I'll gladly take requests, just not while I'm on stage. As you can see, my kitten is my biggest fan.
Get out of my head. We all use Rick Flair gifs and quote him all the time at my new job 🙃🙃🙃
I definitely enjoy it. Im gunna replace the animal pictures with ones with my new clean shaven face when I get back from vacation, it's just temporary lol. Also I would definitely do something like that on stage, it'd just have to be pre planned because I've learned that I absolutely can't stand people in the crowd telling me what to play while on stage during a show. Definitely just a personal preference there!
Yeah that's why it didn't make it to the profile. That pic was just for the people of reddit lol
I did exactly that! https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
Well you'll have to let me know what you think of me without the facial hair 😊 https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
Okay so here's my updated profile with what I feel like is a much better bio https://imgur.com/a/0WKSOOp
The long hair is definitely more of a hippie thing lol, but I shaved my face and this is how I look now! https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
Also yeah it's been nonstop reddit notifications for almost an entire day now. I did not expect this 😂
Lmao nah. I got plenty of actual legit feedback and real concern from a lot of people on here and I'm so happy with it 😊
Here's an even more updated one with the group pic at #3 💜 https://imgur.com/a/0WKSOOp
And here's the profile! https://imgur.com/a/0WKSOOp
That is definitely much better than using someone else's 🤣
Thanks man. I shaved my face clean and I'll probably just rock stubble for a while! You're not wrong though
Oh man yeah that's definitely pretty gross, although I can't say I wouldn't have done something similar as a teenager 😂
Honestly I didn't even notice lol. Ngl I've kind of got some brain mush going on from trying to keep up with this. It's a lot 😂
Lmfao thank you for being funny about it at least 😂
Hell yeah man as someone who also loves acid and the blues, I hold your opinion with high regard 😂
So I'm 22 lol, 23 in a couple months... I'm also still tweaking it obviously, but I already shaved my goatee, and now I'm thinking about just taking the moustache with it. It will grow back anyways. I think this is all around some of the most solid advice I've received today
Well I shaved all my facial hair yesterday, and there's updates floating around the comments if you'd like to see! I'm definitely planning on just having some stubble for now!
Well thank you so much! I'll definitely continue to tweak it and add my own flair! 😊
Well here's me clean shaven 😊 https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
No worries 🤣 Well I cleaned up and there's a couple update comments I posted floating around if you guys wanna see how I look all cleaned up!
Well heres my most updated profile and my clean shaven face. Lmk what you think! https://imgur.com/a/0WKSOOp https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
First of all thank you and I love the name 😂 second well the vagina repellent is now gone! https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
Well I did take this advice, so let me know what you think of the results! https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
And here's the updated profile as well! https://imgur.com/a/0WKSOOp
I am all clean shaven now and you can see for yourself if you check out my update comments!
Well the facial hair is done. Still need to get my hair styled up at some point though! https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
Hey man I've been playing for 15 and I'm starting to make it in a relatively small town in Wisconsin. If the city you live in has a bar that does open jams I highly suggest going to them and inserting yourself into the scene!
Yeah that bathroom pic is long gone now. Here's an update!
I'm clean shaven now and I think I've made some solid updates to my profile. I have updates posted somewhere in this sea of comments :)
Try and find my one of my update comments and let me know what you think of my up to date profile and clean shaven face!
Yeah, no I go from looking down while playing to looking up at the camera!
Second one is actually a little loop of me playing with my kitten sitting on my shoulder lol
Thank you so much. I honestly gotta say I like how I like clean shaven now. There's an update comment with my updated profile and my clean shaven face buried somewhere in here!
Not wrong. I don't know where the 5th one came from, but I do live with three other people 😂
I'm on vacation so I plan to get some more good ones over the next week!
Fuck. This one got me 😂😂 I'm clean shaven now if you care enough to find my update comments 😂
It definitely does! Also is that a Dead reference I spy in your name?
No results yet, but feel free to search the comments for my updated profile and a picture of me clean shaven 😁
I mean there was plenty of unkind comments, but with the sheer number of comments in total it was definitely easy to avoid those and stick to the people really trying to help. Thank you though I honestly am digging the new look already :)
Lmao that's great, but yeah. I also grew up in a large family so this was just the norm 😂
The stache is gone now sadly, and it's an adjustment, but being completely clean shaven for the first time in a long time is also a good feeling 😊. I posted an update in the comments so feel free to try and find it if you want to see what I look like now lol
Just some solid life advice right here. I definitely don't struggle with that, and I came to the realization that making some changes to be more presentable definitely doesn't affect who I am at my core 😊
I need to make my way out to the east coast sooner rather than later hopefully. One of the few places in the US I've yet to visit!
Thanks yo they're both pretty awesome animals and I've been told that I'm pretty fun to be around before 😊
I don't plan on using bogus products, definitely have done my due diligence in this field, but thanks lol
Check my updates, my profile is updated and you can see me with a clean shaven face. My wardrobe is in the process of being rebuilt after years of working in kitchens where your clothes just get destroyed all the time. I work in face to face sales now (as of the last month) so I am much more of a sharp dresser than I used to be. Thank you though!
Well I'm now babyfaced and it's strange, but I'm enjoying it. I couldn't tell you the last time I was completely clean shaven lol
If you find my most recent update comment it's there!
No lol. I'm from Wisconsin and I know both of my parents who married at 18 lol
Hell yeah man. I moved out and I'm now working in sales so I hear you with that lol.
Not anymore. I've been out of the industry for over a month
I literally have gone and made multiple changes to my profile and shaved my goatee off, but whatever you want your head cannon to be, bro.
Oh also check my newest comment. I updated the bio again
And here is the newest bio
Date idea: You tell me your favorite food and I cook it for us. Musically I'm all over the place, so I'll gladly take requests, just not while I'm on stage. As you can see, my kitten is my biggest fan.
See you presented what you had to stay in a very palatable way. I will most definitely be taking your advice!
You know. I used to have a bunch of suspenders back in the day. I should see if I still have them somewhere
No sadly not. Very American lol, and I don't think Finnish is a major heritage of mine either
Well the facial hair is no more. We'll see how it goes once I get more pictures 😂
I got rid of the goatee and the moustache is about to come off. I'll definitely take your advice considering you write romance novels! 😁
Oh trust me bro I did not take it negatively. Everyone who just doesn't like the stache is making it apparent 😂
There's some floating around in the comments, but be ready for an actual post update soon!
Oh I know I was just letting you know if you wanted one yourself!
Lmfao no worries man I got a laugh out of it 😂
Definitely got one of those on my updated profile lol https://imgur.com/a/numpf8N
All over the place. I play rhythm mainly, so riffs are up my alley lol
Well my face is shaved. I just need to get some nice pics now!
First of all thank you! I know your advice comes from experience since you obviously used to work in this field. Mind letting me know what you think of my updated profile? https://imgur.com/a/0WKSOOp
I think the problem with my facial hair is that it's very light in color, so it just looks that way. I can assure you that my moustache does grow in well, but I got rid of it nonetheless lol
I'll get right on that! In the meantime I went with a more modern look 😂 https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
I definitely have another hobby or two I could show. I'm also on vacation so I should get some good pics over this next week!
Ahhh understandable. Sometimes I wish I would've gone to college and gotten a degree, but punk songs on an acoustic are amazing!
Depends on the day really I I just threw it up quick without going for a specific look with it lol
Thanks. I attribute a lot of it to working in sales, specifically face to face sales in a business where I literally try and get people shopping in sam's club to switch to AT&T. I deal with rude people literally every single day and just have to brush it off and move to the next one 😂
Awe I'm honored! 🥺 What kind of music do you make?
Well thank you! Here's my up to date profile and clean shaven face if you're interested in seeing some of the progress I've made due to this post! :)
I mean I work full time. I just play on the side for now, but thank you man I really appreciate it.
Hey I'll take it regardless of gender, thanks man! 😄
Shave done, haircut still to come!
Yeah I'm definitely gunna start hedging my dating bets and trying other platforms as well!
Lol no worries. Despite all the mean comments there's been a ton of super helpful people as well!
Yeah exactly and that's why I switched it up a little bit with my newest one! https://imgur.com/a/0WKSOOp
Yeah I've been making music my whole life and it's definitely something I do just because I love to do it. The fact that I get to do it for other people and have them enjoy it as well is just the cherry on top
I'm just gunna start commenting these all over since my update comments are getting buried lol
Well thanks. I do plan on growing it back in the future, but Im enjoying the clean face for now 😄
Lol well I went with option A and there's updates buried here somewhere 😝
If you feel like searching I have a couple of update posts in here with a pic of me all clean shaven and my current profile!
Awe thanks! You should try and find one of my update comments to see if youd still match with my new clean shaven face 😁
Well I figure posting them again can't hurt since this post is apparently my claim to fame now 😅
Here's my updated profile: https://imgur.com/a/0WKSOOp And heres my clean face: https://imgur.com/a/FE2objy
It's gone now. Try and find my update comments to see the results! :)
I really appreciate it man! Feel free to check out my update and you can see I've already shaved my facial hair. Just need to finish rebuilding my wardrobe right now and Im definitely considering getting my hair trimmed up into an actual style 😄
Not kiss, but we all smoke out of the same pieces and definitely don't mind eating/drinking something one of the other ones has already been eating/drinking. It's safe to say our mouth bacteria is probably all pretty similar at this point as disgusting as it is.
I appreciate this! Feel free to find my update comments and let me know what you think of my clean shaven face and up to date profile! 😊
It's lost! If you feel like it you can try finding my update comments to see me clean shaven 😂
I'll definitely keep it in mind, but I'll probably just replace it with a better dog pic when I get back home from vacay!
The moustache and goatee are now gone, and I think I might get my hair trimmed up to a medium style actually! Thank you so much for the input!
Thank you, and I now have no facial hair at all! Feel free to find my update. I'm definitely happy with the look 😊
Hey thank you, it means a lot! There's a ton of genuine people on here just trying to help me out and I couldn't be more grateful. Definitely makes it easy to overlook all the negative comments coming with it! 😁
No but now I'm going to have to. Especially since I'm now all clean shaven and can watch it without it being a complete shell shock to my appearance 😂
I'm all cleaned up now! Did just the goatee at first and then decided fuck it. I'll just start from zero. Don't think I've been completely clean shaven in years
Thanks man! I mean I wasn't expecting to end up on the front page with this, but here I am 😂
I'm in the northern Midwest, specifically Wisconsin
Go check out my update comments I definitely look much more my age again 🤣
That's what I've been doing. Haven't even been paying attention to the people not genuinely trying to help me out!
Lmao the amount of axle rose comments I've gotten is great 😂 definitely mixed feelings about it.
Thank you! I trust that brand from it's name alone 😂
Exactly. I came to that realization through some helpful people today. Feel free to check out my update comments with my new profile and facial hair, or we'll lack thereof!
Thanks I'll definitely keep this in mind! Some solid ideas for sure!
Thank you for making me laugh and giving me some solid advice! 😁
Good call! I didn't even think of that honestly! 🙃
Thank you. All genuine advice is definitely being appreciated! I've got a comment with my updated profile and a picture of me all clean shaven in here somewhere. It'd be dope if you could go give it some love so others can find it too!
Thank you! It's actually a little loop of me playing with him sitting on my shoulder 😀
His name is avocado, and he's a pitbull mutt. We know for sure he's got American pitty, American bulldog, and Staffordshire terrier for sure!
Oh wow that's shocking, and I'm not opposed to that at all. Thank you for this!
Yeah man I really wasn't expecting my tinder to make the front page today, but here we are 😂. There's tons of great advice in here and I'm glad it can help you out too!
Hey thank you so much! Feel free to dig and find my update comments with me clean shaven and my updated tinder 😊
I'll definitely keep that in mind. I feel like that would be a positive change for me anyways!
Definitely took that advice and I'm now clean shaven 😂
Somewhere in these comments there's an update post I made with my updated profile and a picture of me all clean shaven. Please go find it and give it some love so it's easier for everyone to find!
So this sub doesn't allow post edits, but I have an update comments with my new profile and a pic of my shaved face if you wanna go searching! 😁
There's updates with my new profile, and me having a clean face in a comment I posted somewhere in this sea of them 😁
I made a comment with an updated picture of my profile, and with a picture of me all clean shaven!
Somewhere in this book of a comment section I posted an update! Two in fact as I've been making changes constantly. Even the most updated one is now outdated because I've switched my bio yet again lol.
Thank you, and I cut the goatee off for now, so we'll see how that goes!
I shaved. Not like I'm gunna change my wardrobe and travel all over to get new pics for my tinder tonight lol
I'm from Wisconsin and that also might be part of the problem lol. I also just recently stepped away from the industry because it was slowly killing me
I'm definitely in shape. I just feel none of these pictures do me justice. In the last year I've last around 40 pounds. Down from 210 at my highest, and I sit right around 165-170 currently. I could definitely still use some bulking and more flattering pictures though!
For real I'm genuinely so thankful for all the people that came here and gave me good advice in a non offensive way!
I just usually wear it with a headband or something of the sort
I live in Wisconsin where at least a sweatshirt is required 60% of the year.
This subreddit doesn't allow post edits for some reason, otherwise I'd throw it in the post 🤷
I didn't say I can't solo, but rhythm has always been my thing. Been playing for 15 years, and yeah leads get the attention, but rhythm is the glue that holds the band together
Yeah I don't have visually unappealing teeth by any means, definitely plan on getting some more with my genuine smile. I honestly think my moustache made my smile look less flattering than normally.
I do rock a man bun, but sadly I decided over the winter I'm going to try growing out my baby hairs and my widows peak that appeared again after years of waxing it, so I have a bunch of baby hairs right now
Thanks man. Some of these people don't know how to give advice lol. I actually just got my hair trimmed up the other day, and I'm about to trim the goatee off!
Haha they're gone now, happy holidays to you as well!
I already switched my bio up, but sadly I just recently left the hospitality industry, but I could still do something similar at home!
Definitely just the shirt, but yeah I can see that
Definitely a big deadhead lol. Seen dead and co 11 times
I did remove that picture, but yeah. We definitely refer to his jowls as mouth vaginas for this very reason lol
I'm also looking for some strong hold moustache wax, which should help make it less of a mess
Big into improv as well, but definitely in the jam rock side of the spectrum
Thank you for some real advice! I will definitely take this into consideration!
First of all, thank you. I have switched up how I style my beard up and I do think it looks better. I just need to get some new pics that show that. You just confirmed that I do indeed want a nose ring lol. Also when it comes to bios I just draw a blank and it's definitely an issue
Quality advice, 10/10, will immediately follow, thank you.
Fair enough. I think a big problem is that the city I live in is mostly drunk college kids, so going out and trying to meet people at bars is always a mess. I love the library/bookstore idea though
Understandable, but I did all my research into keeping a decent ELO before signing up this time, and I've been sticking to those rules, but obviously it won't go up either if I'm not getting interactions 🤷
Y'all. I know there's a lot of comments. Please check my updates.
My facial hair. I'm going to continue to do weird things with my facial hair, so why pretend like I'm not?
If you would take the time to look through and see my updates you would know that I am now clean shaven and have made some major changes to my account.
I'm 22, and I ditched the goatee, but the stache is here to stay. I look 12 with no facial hair lol
Thank you, and I definitely have no intentions of changing to be basic!
I mean I know that I'm not the only genuine person on tinder, but I do understand that the majority of the app itself is superficial. Just trying to get back out there. I'm not trying to be flooded in like or anything just wondering why my account feels like a ghost town.
Well that's not something that's changing, at least not for now.
Not happening. I have no interest in superficial likes
I mean if you haven't seen the countless other threads of people giving me advice in much better ways and me gladly taking that advice that's on you.
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I mean in all reality I'm looking for someone genuine, and I don't know exactly what I'm looking for. Took a long hiatus off of dating/talking to girls just to focus on myself and now I'm trying to step back into the pool.