This happened awhile ago, but I wanted to share. I haven't always handled rejection well, but I am learning to communicate better, that women don't owe me anything, and that being cool about feels way better than getting angry.

I met a girl and started dating someone else and let her know, then I broke up and reached out and she was seeing someone, later she reached out and things seemed to be going really well, then she got quiet, so I tried to communicate and got this honest answer because I had shown her I would be cool. TBH I have also been ghosted or got a rude response and I deserved it, because of my actions.

I'm not perfect, but guys please don't make the same mistakes I did - getting mad and being mean doesn’t make you or anyone else feel better. (Goes for girls too) We're all people doing our best and rejection is what it is, maybe we need to improve something for the next person, maybe that person had a personal issue or taste that didn't match, OK it happens, move on to something that's a better fit without destroying something or someone as you do.

P.s. We're still friends and fingers crossed she'll put in a good word to one of her single friends someday lol