So I have been on Tinder for about a month now and I am a paid member for various strategic reasons we will not discuss here. I have met some lovely men on it (and talked to some guys who just aren't for me).

Every time I log in, I start swiping right or left on guys who have liked me (after always reading their profile). I try to do at least 20 or so each time I open the app. So that lowers the count but I have never been able to clear the number or even get close. I don't have time to go through thousands and thousands of likes.

I told a couple guys how many likes I have (unprocessed by me so far) and even showed them a screen grab and they were blown away. These were really attractive, successful guys with no red flags. And I am no super model...I am just a somewhat cute, middle-aged, very niche kind of woman that is under-represented on Tinder. Is it because of my rarity? Do I just write really good copy?

I assume many guys just swipe right on anything they'd #@&% without even reading the profile. But surely a smallish percentage does read it. I assume women are just more discriminating but that is just an assumption. So my question is, what do you suppose is the ratio of how many likes a woman may get on average versus a guy...say over a day or over a week.