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Spontaneousness can mean different things.

If one person is spontaneous, then that person can decide to do things on short notice and do them. All good.

But when person A wants person B to be spontaneous, in my experience, it usually means that A can decide to do things on short notice and wants B to be on standby to tag along without much planning. It seems to be less likely to mean that A wants to be on standby to tag along whenever B gets a spontaneous idea.

Hence why it gives that impression. You, of course, do with that information as you see fit.

I'm honestly quite put off by the first part, "We'll get along if...".

I read it as "You have to be spontaneous and tag along for whatever I want, whenever I want it, and if I insult you or say something offensive but call it a joke, you better laugh and not protest.".

The road trip part is probably fine but also feels a bit unsafe there with the others.

Other people might think differently and if those things are important to you then of course keep them, but it rubs at least me the wrong way big time and I'm probably not entirely alone in that.

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I'm not sure. But if you can, that's quite different.

Good luck!

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