I matched with a guy and we were just starting our conversation. It was going well, fairly friendly still, with no mention of flirting yet. Not an issue. I have my Instagram on my profile, so I wasn't surprised when I got a messaged from him on my DMs. I was, however, surprised to see it was a video of his junk. I know this happens often to girls on tinder, but I still wonder: why do these men do this? Considering I showed interest on him and we were starting to get to know each other, why send that with no context, no nothing, instead of at least trying to steer the conversation into a more sexual zone first? Does this ever work on any women? And if it doesn't, why do men do it?