My wife and I have been very into women together for a long time - we’re going on 13 years together and we’ve been chasing women for at least 10. But damn is it hard to find another woman to join us.

We had one “gf” for a few months who was actually a coworker of mine (yeah, stupid) who had sort of initiated the whole thing after we hung out a few times. But it was pretty great. We were having regular threesomes. And that kind of petered out after a while and after like five years we’ve never had anything come close to that.

Problem I’ve been having is that I can find women who are into me, don’t care that I’m married, but want absolutely nothing to do with my wife.

For those successfully having threesomes with another woman, how are you pulling it off?? I just feel like if we go bar hopping or whatever we’re likely to just creep women out.