Throwaway account b/c my husband is on here. He and I are a hotwife stag/vixen couple. We do not fool around with other girls. I’m extremely protective and I have no interest in him being with another girl and I’m not interested in them (I tried. I’m definitely a guy’s kind of girl) Prior to me in his life, he was in the LS for years.

Much to my dismay, he shared all of his many wild and constant sexual adventures with me at the beginning of our relationship- whether I asked or didn’t. (Usually didn’t)

He and whatever past girl he was in a relationship with did full swaps and anything/everything in between.

There’s one couple they used to swap with and when he and his past relationship broke up, he was the bull for this couple a few times. He’s traveled to be with them, etc…

He’s also brought them up when we’ve been having intimate moments and for example- I’d go to the bathroom- I’d come back and he’d say that he really wants me to meet them. That we should invite this couple to visit. He’s brought up threesome scenarios that he’s done with them that he wants to do with me and the wife is always in his FB search engine.

I know my husband adores me but it absolutely drives me nuts that he still texts with them occasionally, he and the husband say they miss each other, the hubby says they can’t wait to meet me, etc… that hubby searches for her on fb…. Etc…

Am I nuts? Why am I sooooo reactive about this couple? How do I explain that I don’t like it- wish he wouldn’t search her up (or at least hide it so I don’t know he’s doing it) without me seeming like a controlling crazy person?

Has anyone else felt this way about someone from their SO’s past relationship/history?