Hello all, my wife and I have been on the apps like feeld, 3fun, down, bicupid etc… for about a month. Still no genuine connections. My wife and I are not ugly we’re both 23 and fit. And if it’s not bots it’s someone promoting only fans. Or we match and they never answer a message. I’m a very respectful person I don’t just jump into hey let’s fuck what’s your favorite position type of stuff. If I’m lucky enough to get a match I ask hey how are you, What are you looking for on the app (some people say one thing but want another), what are your boundaries, have you done this before etc. Are we doing something wrong? Are we being too polite?

And before you all get on here and start saying “oh you’re looking for a unicorn you’ll never find one blah blah blah.” Save the time. Respectfully it’s possible or these apps wouldn’t exist with some having up to 80k reviews. Just trying to figure out what we’re doing wrong if anything.