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Ever since I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago I want to kiss everyone, touch everyone, and just love and have fun with people. I'm also just trying to figure out my sexuality, because I feel more gay than I've ever felt. And since being single, I'm having fun with myself, and I want to explore myself and others more sexually.
So, I have the idea of contacting my ex's friend who once invited my ex and I to join him and his girlfriend. At the time I said no, because I wasn't feeling it. My ex's friend is openly, super sexual, I love his energy, I'm just looking forward to being around him. His girlfriend is beautiful, and I am looking forward to getting to know her better. And I got the vibes right away, as soon as I met them. I felt the attraction. And when he asked me he was really respectful, and I didn't feel pressured. And I think they are so hot, and now that I'm single I just feel more sexually free. I want to try a threesome with them because I feel like I'd be super comfortable with them.
I've been thinking about messaging him. The thing is, he asked me like, 8 months ago, but I've been thinking about it ever since. Because I have also never had sex with another woman. I want to try, because I'm excited for the experience. And tbh, my ex wasn't good in bed, and I'm just looking forward to having a couple who know what they're doing.
I don't even know where to start. I want to first ask him if he and his girlfriend are still interested and if they'd be down to have me join them. And if they are down to meet up and have drinks, because I think I want to ask them questions and we can talk. And we're obviously going to have to all get tested.
I guess, I'm wondering, should I try reaching out to him? Has anyone been in a similar position? Is it worth it to try?
TLDR: I want to ask my ex's friend if he and his gf are still interested in having a third. I am also learning that I am very gay, and discovering that part of myself for the first time. How do I go about chatting them up?
Edited: I took out some language and added in something at the bottom to signify something that I'm sitting with that I've learned about myself this year. This is to attempt to lessen the chance of unsolicited creepy messages. I am just asking for advice y'all. I don't know you! LOL bffr. I pray for the day that women can be super hyper sexual without being super hyper SEXUALIZED.
Wow everyone is so uptight. I guess anal isn’t of the question. Do me and everyone a favor and give me the boot now 😂
Wow everyone is so uptight. I guess anal isn’t of the question. Do me and everyone a favor and give me the boot now 😂
What’s not classy about just asking? Are you recommending wine and dine?
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If anyone actually looked. We aren’t looking for a second girl. It was a joke that everyone got butt hurt about and i think it’s funny. Nothing really to clean up. I do appreciate your advice and comment. It was the most appropriate response