It's happening tonight! Our first threesome! Everyone involved is a newbie. that relieves the pressure (for me at least) So nervous but so excited! I've been having anxiety attacks the last 2 days. My husband found a lovely lady online about an hour from us. We got a babysitter, going out for dinner with her then getting a hotel after. If all goes well we'll be inviting her over to our place going forward but I thought it was a better idea to go the hotel route first time.

I do have a question for those of you with experience, who also have young children. Our son is 4. He wakes up in the night a few times a week and crawls into bed with us. Sometimes it's 3am sometimes it's before midnight. We'd be getting a lock for the bedroom, and she won't be spending the night. But what if he wakes up and sees her before she goes home? What do we tell him? I'm over thinking every little thing that might or might not even happen. Is that normal? (Her place isn't an option for various reasons)