So for starters me (29M) and my gf (29F) have been together a little over a year now but we’ve always talked about having a threesome one day with another woman. Only thing is if we have one she says the other woman can only be sexual with her and vice versa.

My gf has also mentioned that the reason behind that is she would get too jealous watching me please another woman. Now although I get it and it’s understandable where she’s coming from I also think to myself like what’s the point in it for me? Like is this even a threesome really? And don’t get me wrong I’m a voyeur and would very much enjoy watching my woman be pleased by another woman.

I just want to know has anyone else dealt with this before and if so, did you eventually get consent to fuck both or did you guys just not explore the option at all? All advice is welcome. Thanks