So my wife and I have been discussing threesomes for a couple of years. We've had a couple of close encounters but nothing ever came of these. As time goes on and the conversations continue, I'm starting to question if it's something I really want.

Don't get me wrong, I'm extremely aroused by the idea. We both fantasize about FFM and MFM threesomes. To have her and another woman would be exciting. To share her and help her fulfill her fantasy is equally exciting.... But now, I'm confused on if this is what I want. I'm not interested in hooking up with someone else, I've even turned down a hall pass from her. Aside from a threesome, the idea of her being touched by another man infuriates me.

I'm now questioning whether or not it's something I want for us or something I want to do for her. Often times, these things overlap but with this, I don't want to potentially alter our marriage or sexlife, simply because I'm trying to do something, I'm not prepared to do.