We have been in the LS for 2 years. We have played with lots of couples. We are having one of the guys from one of the couples over tomorrow afternoon for her first MFM. I want it to be amazing for her but when I ask her what she wants she just very nervous and says she doesn’t know and doesn’t want to be responsible for figuring it out. She does say she is excited but doesn’t want to or is unable to give any input. She says she has no idea how these things go or what is expected of her. I keep telling her there is no expectation and that it is about her having a great time. I don’t want to keep pressing her because it causes anxiety. Any suggestions?